tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8045558338047530867.post7164002468389705006..comments2024-03-08T21:16:28.550+00:00Comments on The General Whirl: hurtJoshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04681996675508746353noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8045558338047530867.post-76111879748017608952009-04-07T15:18:00.000+01:002009-04-07T15:18:00.000+01:00that is how it feels ... hard wired. No point in w...that is how it feels ... hard wired. No point in wishing then ... oh well, thought not! I think Claudia is right though. I keep picking over the same scab, not good. Hugs to you too! xxJoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04681996675508746353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8045558338047530867.post-35353471718688858232009-04-06T22:24:00.000+01:002009-04-06T22:24:00.000+01:00my hurt is in my mind, not my body, but the same t...my hurt is in my mind, not my body, but the same thing you write about applies in some ways. today i spoke with claudia, who understands how this stuff works, and she said that while we look at it in an attempt to heal it we keep re-visiting it and opening it up again. we can't undo stuff that happened at a time when our personhood was developing; it is hard-wired into us. so we need to learn how to live round it and with it. it made a lot of sense to me, although it may not be how it sits with you. hugs anyway.joker the lurcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17260629209872897792noreply@blogger.com